What Not to Do at a Funeral
Funerals can become a prime opportunity for some to do or say things they might later regret. Of course, that isn’t necessary. You can get through an entire funeral without messing up.
Funerals are the perfect opportunity to remember someone in a dignified fashion. They offer friends and family the chance to say goodbye, find closure and cope during a sometimes difficult grieving process. Put simply, funerals are important. Handling yourself appropriately at funerals is generally pretty important, too. If you or someone you know is seeking guidance from funeral homes in or near Monrovia, IN, rest assured there are professionals in your area prepared to answer any questions you may have. In the meantime, you may wish to do some research in order to assure that you don’t attract the wrong kind of attention at a funeral you may be attending. Remember that you needn’t necessarily make an absolutely perfect impression at a funeral. We aren’t talking about a job interview. The important thing is that you not make the wrong impression, entirely. The last message you want to send is that you don’t care or that you’re too busy to pay your respects.
In some respects, funerals seem like the perfect opportunity to make the worst possible mistakes. This is not a typical social encounter.
As Jess Catcher explains, “Dealing with the death of a loved one, no matter how close you might have been when they passed, is never easy. If it was sudden, the shock can be overwhelming, and even if it wasn’t, you might still be left reeling with emotions you can’t quite process. This is exactly why attending a funeral can be so rife with awkward and possibly painful interactions with the bereaved family, who are attempting to cope with their loss. The smallest of errors can accidentally be made without realizing the actual impact.”
In general, you should avoid trying to draw too much attention to yourself. That may mean dressing modestly (though not necessarily in black) and avoiding saying too much. Indeed, many awkward moments occur simply because someone feels obliged to say something to the bereaved and winds up saying far too much. It isn’t your job to resolve their grief. And nor should you try to relate to them with stories of your own. Do you really know exactly how they feel? Probably not. And probably best not to assert otherwise. Similarly, you should avoid causing a stir if you arrive to the funeral late. It is a good idea to get there 15 or 20 minutes early in a bid to interact with other guests for a moment. But if you are late due to unthinkable traffic or something along these lines, quietly sit at the back when you arrive. The big point is that you should never make a scene. And yes, this means you should make abundantly sure that your phone is on silent mode.
Finally, don’t stress. Your stress can make you do or say things you otherwise wouldn’t, and there is really no need to worry about things. Be respectful, and everything should work out just fine. If you are looking for funeral homes in the Monrovia, IN, area, consider reaching out to Carlisle-Branson Funeral Service & Crematory. We look forward to addressing any questions or concerns you may have in a caring and professional fashion. You can visit us at 39 E High St, Mooresville, IN 46158 or place a phone call to (317) 831-2080.
