Ruth D. Dirlam

Ruth D. Dirlam, Mooresville, passed away on October 29, 2011 at Select Hospital in Indianapolis. Ruth was born June 13, 1929 in Patricksburg, Indiana to the late Eb and Nora Hauser. She was preceded in death by her brother Richard Hauser. Ruth is survived by her beloved husband of 62 years, Jasper, their two sons John (Carol) of Mooresville and Mark of Indianapolis, her two grandchildren Lindsay and Matt, her brother Bill Hauser, her brother-in-law Dr. James Dirlam, sister-in-law Norma Dirlam, sister-in-law Peggy Hauser and 8 nieces and nephews.

Ruth graduated from Patricksburg High School in 1947 and attended Indiana State Teachers College. Ruth married her classmate, Jasper, in 1950, and they moved to Mooresville later that year. She worked at Stuart Warner before she and Jasper left for Camp Roberts in California. While in California, she worked at the Chaplin’s Office until Jasper was transferred to Fort Benning, Georgia for Air Borne training. She then worked for Burnham’s Van Service until Jasper’s discharge date. Upon returning to Mooresville, Ruth’s primary mission was to take care of Jasper and her children. She spent 20 years volunteering for the blood drive, as an election worker, and at Miller’s Merry Manor. Over the years, she worked part-time as a substitute teacher at Monroe-Gregg Elementary and Madison Elementary, at Diamond Chain, and at Public Service Indiana Energy.

Ruth helped Jasper care for their beloved Shropshire sheep flock and border collies and assisted during lambing season for many cold winters. She travelled to sheep shows across the country with Jasper during his tenure on the Board of Directors of the American Shropshire Registry Association.

More recently, Ruth was heavily involved in her grandchildren’s lives. She never missed any event they were involved in; track meets, basketball games, Little League, and 4-H sheep shows at the county and states fairs.

Calling will be Tuesday, November 1 from 4-8pm at Carlisle-Branson Funeral Service & Crematory in Mooresville, and the funeral will be held Wednesday, November 2 at 10am at St. Stephen’s Lutheran Church in Plainfield with a burial to follow at Worthington Cemetery. Contributions can be made to Ruth’s Circle at St. Stephen’s Lutheran Church, 1001 Concord Rd., Plainfield, IN 46168. www.carlislebranson.com

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  1. What a blessing it was to have Ruth as a neighbor for twenty years. Her love for her family was ever present in all she did. She was truly Jasper’s ‘other half.’ Never did we have a conversation that she did not shine when speaking of her boys or her grandchildren. She will often be missed. Betty Kale Trusty

  2. We will miss our Aunt Ruth. She taught us so much on life, love and family. She was the best example anyone could have. Her leaving us leaves a void that will only be filled with the memories we have of her. I know that she was truly in love with her husband, sons, daughter-in-law, and her grandchildren. We are better people having had the privilege of knowing her. All our love from the bottom of our hearts, Peggy, Mike Brandon, Rachel, Gabe, Nitin Stephen, Liza, Simon, Evelyn Ruth Karen and Matt

  3. I’m going to miss you Aunt Ruth. Just knowing you were there was a great comfort to me. You had the kindest heart and you loved your family so much. Thanks for your caring calls. You told me some great old stories that I needed to hear. I’m so glad that we talked on the phone more often these past few years. I will miss your sweet laugh. Heaven is a brighter place now. I know Dad met you with opened arms.

  4. The Collings and McCammack family on Bethesda Road will miss you Ruth. We will never forget the fun had at your weinie roast/hayrides and the support you gave the kids buying countless boxes of Girl Scout Cookies. I will miss stopping to deliver something and staying for the conversation and fellowship. I remember you and I listening to Jasper & Jimmy trade stories on Fort Benning. Good times~ Love you friend…… Lisa Collings Bob McCammack Amanda Collings Bayer Abby Collings Bayer Jimmy Collings Madison Collings

  5. Jasper, I just heard about Ruth. You and your family have my sympathy. I’ll always remember her friendship and smile. Martha Brock

  6. Condolences from the family of Jim and Norma Anderson. We just lost Dad (Jim) on Oct. 24 and Mom is no longer able to drive but we wanted to send Jasper, John and Mark our sympathy. Cheryl (Anderson) Coonce

  7. Dear Jap, unfortunately Carolyn and I were unable to be there at this time, but our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Dick & Carolyn Crosby

  8. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very sad and difficult time…Mark and Lynn Hochstetler Campbell


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